A 17 year old schoolgirl gave oral sex to two men at an Eminem concert in Ireland last Saturday night. After the photos went viral, she is under sedation in hospital and her sexual partner has been praised as a hero and a legend.
Although many of the Twitter and Instagram pictures have been taken down and also the 'slut-shaming' page on Facebook, the world now knows who she is - a secondary schoolgirl from west Ireland.
Police arrested 63 people during the American rapper's concert, watched by 80,000 fans. It was held at Slane Castle, organized by Lord Conyngham who lives at the castle and is known as the 'rock and roll aristocrat.'
A Twitter spokesman said "If people come across content that may violate our policies, we encourage them to report it so we can quickly follow up, rather than re-tweet images and links."
A Facebook spokesman said "Unfortunately there will always be a tiny number of malicious people who are intent on harming others, online and offline. It is difficult to prevent this minority from behaving this way but once they do, we will work hard to remove them from Facebook and make sure they are brought to justice."
Performing consensual sex acts in public in 2013 is reckless and stupid. In Australia, 9 out of 10 boys aged 13-16 and 60 per cent of girls have seen online porn, according to the University of Canberra, and the sex is getting rougher.
Acts of physical aggression against women occurred in 88 per cent of the most popular DVD and video porn in 2010. But the wrong message is being sent because the female porn star responds in positive ways to that aggression. The viewer sees the woman enjoying being choked, gagged and hit.
British PM David Cameron once described pornographic images as "corroding childhood" and this unfortunate Irish girl is just one of many teens today who are confused about what is required of them sexually.
But they need to remember that the old-fashioned value about sex and women still applies today, as this incident shows - the man is a legend and a hero, but the girl is a slut.